5 Reasons Not To Date A White Woman

5 REASONS NOT TO DATE A WHITE WOMAN

Let’s see I first wrote a blog on 5 Good Reasons to Date a White Woman. After getting an angry response from most of my readers, I decided to write this blog; five reasons not to date a white woman. I mean it’s only right that after “praising” them in the previous that I should show the flipside of things and provide five reasons on why not to date them. So once again please just sit back read this first, let it soak in for a little bit and then feel free to criticize.

SHE CAN’T BRING YOU HOME

Yes, I am aware that it is 2010 but let’s be honest no matter where you live in the United States if you are dating a white girl her parents will more than likely not be thrilled to see their child bring home a person of color. As sad as it is it’s pretty much a fact. While there are a few exceptions to this, do you really want to be the one to test this rule out? Also why would you date someone knowing that she can’t take you home to meet her parents? If she did take you home there’s a high chance that her parents wouldn’t like you or approve of her dating you no matter how old she is.

YOU CAN’T TAKE HER HOME AT ALL

When it comes to her taking you home there’s a possibility that her parents may actually like you. When it comes to you taking her home, forget about it. No matter how open and non-racist your parents may be, you bringing home a white woman is an automatic no. Especially when it comes to moms or any sisters you may have approving her. I’m sure most of y’all have heard the saying “If she don’t use the comb, don’t bring her home.” If you think that they were playing around when they said it I dare you to bring one home. Being black and bringing home a white woman is also like a bold face slap in your mother’s face by saying in a way that she, a black woman, isn’t good enough for you but yet she was good enough to raise you.

IF YOU LIVE IN THE SOUTH

I’m sure some of y’all are thinking isn’t this reason pretty much the same as the previous two. Well, it could be viewed that way but in reality it’s far from it. . Just a reminder this is a place that made blacks drink from separate water fountains for the longest, a place that used to hang and beat black males for even looking in the direction of a white woman. Plus, if you live in the south and are dating a white woman you can’t really do anything out in public. If you go out to the mall and are walking around holding hands you will be sure to catch a bunch of dirty and sideways looks. If you go out to dinner notice how many mumbled conversations there will be about you. In the end it’s really unnecessary stress and pressures to date a white woman if you live in the south.

YOU WILL BE CONSIDERED A SELL OUT

Let’s just be honest with this one: if you date a white woman there’s pretty much a high chance that you will be considered a sell out by your fellow people of the same race. Face it as asinine as it is most races want you to stick with in their race when it comes to dating. Especially if you’re black and you date a white woman just be prepared to be judged and criticized and talked about by other black females, especially if you left a black chick to be with a white woman. One way to sum up this situation would be a quote from Kanye West, “When he get on he leave your ass for a white girl.” Do you really want to be the subject of that quote and know the fact that black females will more than likely not like you anymore?

HIGHER STANDARDS

This one is pretty simple and quite obvious if you stop and think about it. Dating a white woman automatically means that you will be and are held to a higher standard than if it was a white male dating her. You pretty much have to be on your best behavior at all times. You have no room to slip up in the relationship. You have to make sure that she gets the best of you at all times even if you don’t feel like it.


In conclusion, am I saying that you shouldn’t date a white woman? No. Am I saying that you should let these play a major part in determining if you should or shouldn’t? No I’m not. What I am saying is that you should stop think and think about the pros and cons before getting into any relationship no matter the race or ethnicity of the person.

All in all this is just one man’s opinion that has experienced vary different races and decided to give you a few reasons why not to date one particular race.