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5 Reasons Not To Date A White Woman

5 REASONS NOT TO DATE A WHITE WOMAN

Let’s see I first wrote a blog on 5 Good Reasons to Date a White Woman. After getting an angry response from most of my readers, I decided to write this blog; five reasons not to date a white woman. I mean it’s only right that after “praising” them in the previous that I should show the flipside of things and provide five reasons on why not to date them. So once again please just sit back read this first, let it soak in for a little bit and then feel free to criticize.

SHE CAN’T BRING YOU HOME

Yes, I am aware that it is 2010 but let’s be honest no matter where you live in the United States if you are dating a white girl her parents will more than likely not be thrilled to see their child bring home a person of color. As sad as it is it’s pretty much a fact. While there are a few exceptions to this, do you really want to be the one to test this rule out? Also why would you date someone knowing that she can’t take you home to meet her parents? If she did take you home there’s a high chance that her parents wouldn’t like you or approve of her dating you no matter how old she is.

YOU CAN’T TAKE HER HOME AT ALL

When it comes to her taking you home there’s a possibility that her parents may actually like you. When it comes to you taking her home, forget about it. No matter how open and non-racist your parents may be, you bringing home a white woman is an automatic no. Especially when it comes to moms or any sisters you may have approving her. I’m sure most of y’all have heard the saying “If she don’t use the comb, don’t bring her home.” If you think that they were playing around when they said it I dare you to bring one home. Being black and bringing home a white woman is also like a bold face slap in your mother’s face by saying in a way that she, a black woman, isn’t good enough for you but yet she was good enough to raise you.

IF YOU LIVE IN THE SOUTH

I’m sure some of y’all are thinking isn’t this reason pretty much the same as the previous two. Well, it could be viewed that way but in reality it’s far from it. . Just a reminder this is a place that made blacks drink from separate water fountains for the longest, a place that used to hang and beat black males for even looking in the direction of a white woman. Plus, if you live in the south and are dating a white woman you can’t really do anything out in public. If you go out to the mall and are walking around holding hands you will be sure to catch a bunch of dirty and sideways looks. If you go out to dinner notice how many mumbled conversations there will be about you. In the end it’s really unnecessary stress and pressures to date a white woman if you live in the south.

YOU WILL BE CONSIDERED A SELL OUT

Let’s just be honest with this one: if you date a white woman there’s pretty much a high chance that you will be considered a sell out by your fellow people of the same race. Face it as asinine as it is most races want you to stick with in their race when it comes to dating. Especially if you’re black and you date a white woman just be prepared to be judged and criticized and talked about by other black females, especially if you left a black chick to be with a white woman. One way to sum up this situation would be a quote from Kanye West, “When he get on he leave your ass for a white girl.” Do you really want to be the subject of that quote and know the fact that black females will more than likely not like you anymore?

HIGHER STANDARDS

This one is pretty simple and quite obvious if you stop and think about it. Dating a white woman automatically means that you will be and are held to a higher standard than if it was a white male dating her. You pretty much have to be on your best behavior at all times. You have no room to slip up in the relationship. You have to make sure that she gets the best of you at all times even if you don’t feel like it.


In conclusion, am I saying that you shouldn’t date a white woman? No. Am I saying that you should let these play a major part in determining if you should or shouldn’t? No I’m not. What I am saying is that you should stop think and think about the pros and cons before getting into any relationship no matter the race or ethnicity of the person.

All in all this is just one man’s opinion that has experienced vary different races and decided to give you a few reasons why not to date one particular race.

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5 Good Reasons To Date A White Woman

5 GOOD REASONS TO DATE A WHITE WOMAN

Yea I’m black and I’m writing a blog on five reasons to date a white woman. So what? Does that offend you? Does it bother you? Does it make you question yourself? Really does it matter? Those are all questions that you have to ask yourself. . Have I dated a white woman before? Yes I have so I can make these statements fairly. However, I’m digressing from the matter at hand and that’s five reasons to date a white woman. Please just sit back read this first, let it soak in for a little bit and then feel free to criticize.

LESS OF A HEADACHE

Fact dating a white woman instead of a woman of another race is usually less of a headache. White women are less likely to cop an attitude at every last little bit like women of other races. It’s not that they are more “submissive” it’s that they are more understanding and usually realize what is and isn’t worth arguing over or making an unnecessary statement about.

MORE UNDERSTANDING

White women for the most part are more understanding about most situations. For example, if you’ve made it known that something is bothering you and you do not want to discuss at all a white woman is more likely to understand that it’s something that you have to deal with yourself. They won’t constantly badger you to talk about it. They also won’t constantly try to force you to do something or be something that you don’t want to.

MORE OPEN

White women are more open to trying different things. Rather these things are sexual or not white women are usually more open to trying different things without having something that they are familiar with to go along with it. For example, they would try a different type of meal without having to have a familiar condiment or side dish or drink to go along with it. Whereas most other races would usually want something that they are comfortable with to go along with it and that’s if they even decided to step outside of their comfort zone

BETTER HEALTH

Let’s just be honest on this one. What do you see when you walk into a gym? Do you see a black chick or a latina or another race in there on the treadmill? Na didn’t think so. What you do see in there is white females and multiples ones at that. You ever notice that you always see white females out running and exercising but you rarely or never see women of another ethnicity. Also, white women are more conscious about what they eat and how much they eat where as other races are not.

YOU WON’T BE JUDGE BY YOUR POSSESSIONS

Ever try to approach a black woman and before you even really get a chance to open your mouth you’ve been shot down because your shoes or your vehicle isn’t up to their “standards”? That happens a lot with that race and other races. White women however are less likely to judge you on your possessions (some will do it though). They are more likely to give you a puncher’s chance and will more than likely entertain the thought of a date or at least some form of future communication to get to know you better. They have an understanding that while material possessions are important to an extent they realize that it’s not what truly matters in the end.

So in conclusion am I saying that white women are perfect for everybody? Fuck no. Am I saying that they are perfect in general? Once again no I’m not. What I am saying however is that they are more open, more understanding, less of a headache, in better health and less judgmental about petty things unlike other ethnicities. Are white women perfect or meant for every one? No. You as an individual have to find the one that is right for you.

All in all this is just one man’s opinion that has experienced vary different races and decided to give you a few reasons why to date one particular race.

The Response

Chivalry is dead! And women fucking killed it. Now for those of you that didn't close the page after reading that let me explain. Majority of y'alls thought process is as follows: "I'm single, got a job, pay my own bills, my own crib, I'm doing me, I don't need a man." Let's just stop right there. If you didn't need a man it would've just been Eve or Eve and Addie but it wasn't and isn't. Women you need men and men we need women. Now let's get back to the issue of why majority of y'all are single. Most men understand and respect the single working independent woman but this whole oprah and beyonce shit y'all on right now needs to come to an abrupt end. Y'all wonder why the "loud ghetto bitch" got a good man it's prolly cause her head ain't stuck up her ass. While she might not have some of the same qualities as y'all they for the most part have their ego in check. Yes we as men are settling when dating one of them but it provides less of a headache and drama. Don't try to play the I'm a strong black female card you can be one and not have your head up your ass. Choose better role models. Oprah is a fucked up one. Shes been leading steadman on for 20 something odd years. She built him a guest house so they don't have to sleep in the same bed or house. If you agree with that then stop reading now. Then there's beyonce. Her husband makes more than her. She used a group format to become a star then turned on the group. She never helps put anyone on she came up with. Great role model right? So basically what this breaks down to is if you don't want to be single you are gonna have to change some things. Don't worry us men will change and adapt also. Basically though y'all need to do the following: get off that pedestal that you're on, pull your head out your ass, show some humility, and every now and then approach a man and initiate a conversation things may work out different for you. If not you just suck at choosing potential mates

Remember when the shit hits the fan, it came from the horse's ass first

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A Blog Post for Another Website

So this is my first post on nwso. First and foremost I wanna thank the man himself for giving me a shot. With that said let me introduce myself. For all intents and purposes you all can call me JDEL. I'm a twenty one year old college student thats majoring in Marketing at Troy University.

Now that that's out the way here's the topic of my first post. College dating and how it affects your social status. Now most of the people that are reading this have probably gone through college and know what I'm talkin bout. There's also some that haven't or are experiencing it now.

While we all know who you date really shouldn't affect your social standing it unfortunately does. Rather it's fair or not is for a different discussion at a different time. Here's three examples to prove my point.

Example one: if a female dates a Greek and she isn't a greek. It boosts her popularity on campus as to someone that almost everybody should know. Now if they ever break up depending on how bad the break up was her social status could be affected drastically. She go from a nobody to a somebody to a hoe. All in the matter of months just because of the individual she chose to date.

Example Two: If two Greeks dated. Depending on how the relationship goes it could be beneficial or harmful for both the respective organizations and the individuals. If the relationship went bad it could become a major issue on campus and ruin any chance of Greek unity on that campus along with the reputation and perception of one or both Greek organizations. However, if things went good it would show and prove that Greeks from different organizations could get along which is a good look for all parties involved.

One last example would be if a non Greek male dated a Greek female of relatively high social standing on campus. It would more than likely promote him to a high social standing; and depending on the individual he could use that social standing to join an organization that he possibly wouldn't have been able to join without being in a relationship with that Greek. Probably shortly after he joined the organization he would break up with her because she no longer has a purpose and her popularity and social standing would take a hit.

So in the end, should who you date really affect your social standing? If so why ? Have you or anybody you know been in one of these situations? It doesn't have to be with a greek. It could be with anyone of high social status and standing? For those that are wondering if I'm Greek does it matter?

Thank You. Be Easy and Enjoy Life

JDEL

The 48 Laws of Power

The 48 Laws of Power should really be a must read for any business major, but more so for any person trying to better themselves. Now this aint one of those self help books that make you feel like crap after reading it or like an inferior person or little child. This book was written by well respected author Robert Greene. It's also a national best seller. This blog is titled Straight From The Horse's Ass and I will rarely endorse shit on this blog but seeing how I am reading this book now, I suggest whoever reads this takes a look at possibly purchasing this book and any other book by Robert Greene


Remember when the shit hits the fan, it came from the horse's ass first.

Catch Up

wow. i started this blog as a way to basically talk shit and say what's on my mind hence the name. plus this is a blog on my views and thoughts that arent expressed in some form of literature on the other blog, abrokenmansthoughts.blogspot.com,

so yea there's alot of shit talking and things that need to be addressed but i'll get to that later. this is just an intro/catch up blog.

Just remember, when the shit hits the fan it came from the horse's ass first.